BEAUTIFUL KEEPS ANGER

"Whoever keeps anger, when he can satisfy his outlet, then on the Day of Resurrection, God will call him in front of all creatures, and then he will choose an angel as he wishes." (Abu Dawud - At-Tirmidhi)

The level of determination of a person in the face of adversity of life is different. Some are able to deal with such a difficult problem with a sense of calm. However, there are also people who face small problems just responded with so heavy. It all depends on the strength of one's ma'nawiyah (faith).

In essence, the diverse human nature: loud and calm, fast and slow, clean and dirty, is closely related to its steadfastness and patience while interacting with others. People who have the firmness of faith will go through the halls of the hearts of others with a forgiving, calm, and airy response.

Sometimes, we can feel so angry with someone who insults us. Our anger so culminates as our soul is thrown from consciousness. We feel so incapable of accepting the insult. Except, with Angry or even by shedding blood. Na'udzubillah.

According to the narrative, a Badwi came to the Prophet (s). With the intention of asking for something to him. He gave her, then said, "I do good to you." The Badwi said, "Your giving is not good." The Companions were offended, then grabbed him with the Rage. However, the Prophet signaled for them to be patient.

Then, the Prophet back home. The Prophet returned with additional Goods to be given to Badwi. The Prophet said to the Badwi, "I do good to you?" The Badwi said, "Yes, may Allah repay the good of you, family and relatives."

The next day, the Messenger of Allah. Said to the Companions, "Well, when the Badwi says as you hear, then you will not be patient and then kill him, so he will go to hell, but because I built well, he survived."

A few days after that, the Badly wants to be commanded to perform even the most important task. He also participates in the field of jihad and performs his duties with obedience and pleasure.

Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) gives us an example of a staggering heart. He does not panic about the rudeness of a Badwi who is so his character. Even if at that time, punishment of the Badwi, of course it is not kezhaliman. However, the Messenger of Allah. Do not do so.

He is patient with him and gives a friendly and gentle attitude. At that time, he was. Wants to show us that patience and fairness are higher in value than any other possessions. The treasure, then, was like the stacked garbage that was used to treat the raging camels. Of course, a camel that has gained its needs will easily be tamed and can be used for a long journey.

Sometimes, the Messenger of Allah. Also angry. However, his anger does not go beyond the limits of glory. That he did not because of personal problems but because of the honor of Allah's religion. Messenger of Allah. Said, "The cursing of the Muslims is wicked (sin), and fighting it is kufr (out of Islam)." (HR.Bukhari) The Sabdanya also said, "It is not a reproachful believer, a cursed, vile and dirty words." (HR Turmudzi)

A person who is able to control lust when his anger rebelled, and able to refrain at a time of derision, then such a person is expected to produce good and good for himself and his community.

A Judge who is unable to restrain his anger, will not be able to decide the matter fairly. And, a leader who is easily ignited lust, will not be able to provide a way out for his people. Instead, he will always bring hostility in his community. So even husband and wife who do not have peace of mind. He will not be able to pay the pace of the ark of his life. Because, each is not able to close his eyes for a small mistake his partner.

For a man whose faith has grown fertile in his chest. Thus, also grow the properties of his great soul. Fertile also sense of conscience and generosity of his heart. His patience is getting bigger in the face of a problem. It is not easy to see a guilty person in spite of his rights.

Such a person, will be able to control himself, hold his aunt, curb his tongue from improper conversation. It is obligatory for him to train himself by cleansing himself of liver diseases. Such as, ujub and takabur, riya, sum'ah, lie, pitted lambs and so forth.

And accompany it with the deeds of worship and obedience to Allah, in order to increase high degrees in the sight of Allah swt. From Abdullah bin Shamit, the Messenger of Allah. Said, "Is not it better for me to tell you something with which God exalts the buildings and elevates someone?" The Companions replied, "Well, O Messenger of Allah." Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: "You are sorry for those who fool you You are sorry to those who have persecuted you You give to those who never give you something And you want to stay in touch with the person who has broken the relationship with you . " (HR Thabrani)

The Sabbath also says, "Behold a slave when he curses unto a thing, ascend the curse to the heavens, then locked the door of the ceiling for him, and then drops the curse upon the earth, and seeth the doors of the earth unto him. Right and left, so if he does not have a new place he goes to the curse, if he deserves to be cursed (that is, if he is entitled to curse), but if not worthy, then return to the cursed person (back to the address of the cursed). " (Abu Dawud)